TIPS TO HAVING A MEMORABLE FIRST NIGHT AFTER WEDDING.

After having a very stressful wedding day, your journey into a married life has just begun, and your first night together is the beginning of that journey. This is a journey that is ordained to last for a life time, a journey of everlasting marital ‘BLISS’. The grooms generally have great expectations for the night, while the bride on the other hand goes through some kind of emotion, anxiety, hesitation and some times fear of the unknown.

It is important that the groom should exercise some level of patience and endeavor to make the bride confident and comfortable in her new environment (This apply mostly to people that has observed the premarital rules of dos and don’ts). Sometimes newly married couples don’t start their first night with sex, may be because the bride might be shy about it or they may feel too tired to do so because of the day’s hectic wedding activities.

In the first night of marriage, couples should start the night by having a heart to heart talk. This is the time to really appreciate one another and be thankful to each other for accepting to be part of each others life. This kind of discussion should be preceded with prayer to God, thanking him for giving both of you the privilege to be with each other. Your prayer here is a strong building block to your future, because you have called God to always give you direction in your affairs. This is the first seed to a healthy and happy marriage life. Your discussion should centre on your future, how you would want your future to be, it may be necessary to add when you should start having babies and how many you would want to have.

The newly married couples should ensure that their bedroom is clean and tidy with good fragrance that can make you think you are in heaven. This kind of sweet environment brings pure and great joy; it makes you to think clearly about your future together. It can easily arouse sexual urge between the two couples, you will be surprised that the result of this first night can produced a seed that takes nine months to mature.

Newly married couples should not be distracted by where they are coming from, they should concentrate more on where they are and where they are going, because where you are is more important than where you are coming from. Don’t keep reminding your spouse how they do things where you are coming from, it is very annoying, and can cause long term damage to your marriage if not checked.

Newly married couples should learn to trust one another. They must not allow doubt to come into their marriage. Trust is very important in building long term happy marriage.

They must not allow third party to come into their marriage. Allowing a third party into your marriage could cause irreparable damage to your marriage. Don’t allow anybody, whether your mother, father brothers and sisters, even your best friend to come in-between you and your spouse, it is not healthy for a happy marriage.

Newly married couples should always confide in each other, they should be best of friends, don’t hold back any secret that can hurt your spouse when he or she discovers the truth from another source.

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