HOW TO REBUILD A BROKEN MARRIAGE

Two sweet couples were having a good beginning, every thing was just perfect, and your partner was the perfect man or woman for you. Both of you are fond of each other and it was like God has created both of you from the beginning for each other. But somewhere along the line things began to change, you begin to see a stranger in the house, your once all and all is gradually turning to a mortal enemy, a monster in the house. Sometimes you can go for days without exchanging words, not to talk of complements. But deep inside the couples heart, they are secretly wishing that this cold war will end and normal relationship will resume.

Now who will make the first move to bring sanity into the home?  It will be difficult to return peace in a home where one of the couples has decided to quit the marriage or where both couples are fed up with each other.

Listed below are steps that can be taken to restore a broken home:

1. No matter how angry a couple may be, learning to speak respectfully to your spouse is a key to good home, it is very easy to let your word fly with sarcasm, disrespect and irritation. This action will cause your mate to move further back into his or her shell, and certainly it will not serve any purpose for reconciliation matters.

2. Both of you must learn to forgive and forget what ever has happened in the past. Learn to live behind what ever has caused the disunity in the first instance.

3. I will  suggest that the man should always lead the way to reconcile the marriage. This is because, as a man you are the spiritual head of your home, you shouldn’t allow things to deteriorate before you.

4. Both of you should learn to trust again, if trust has been breached by either couple. Agree to be honest and open with anything that is bothering you in the future and slowly but surely learn to trust each other once again.

5. Begin to build your life together once again, start to make time together again and try to develop common interest and goals again. You need to build the common foundation once again

6. Couples must put safeguard in those areas they have discovered to be the weak line in their marriage. For example, if affair has happen, they should try to avoid being too close to the opposite sex.

Couples must learn to forget the past; they must not allow the past to hurt them, or try to judge your partner with the past. Judging your partner with the past brings resentment and fear of the future.

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