THE IMPORTANCE OF PRE-MARRIAGE COUNSELING


Getting married in once life is an important decision in life, that is why it is very important that great care should taken to ensure that everything necessary for a successful marriage is done. As i have mentioned in one of my posts why marriages break up, that romantic love is not enough to withstand the pressure of marriage, romantic love is weak and unreliable on the long run.
Couples who intend to get married need to see beyond the present in their proposed marriage, they need to brace up for the challenges of tomorrow which is inevitable.

Many marriages have ended in divorce because the couples were ill equipped for the journey ahead. They were not counsel by an experienced marriage counselor, because they did not see the need for that.

A marriage has 50% of success if the couples undergo marriage counseling.  No wonder many churches made it compulsory for every intending couple to go through marriage counseling before they are joined together in marriage.

Counseling before marriage help the couple to accept what marriage is all about, it help them to develop a mind set that marriage may not be a bed of roses after all. Marriage is the most intimate relationship between two individuals, therefore care should be taken to ensure that the relationship last a life time.

Some couples may not want to undergo marriage counseling because of the fear that the exercise may prevent them from getting married when some secret about them may have been revealed through marriage counseling.

The question now is why marriage counseling? Is it necessary in this relationship when we love our self? Well love is good, but it will become a fairy tale if the future relationship is not put into consideration, as regards the pressure the couples will experience when the reality begin to stare them in the face, the pressure from the children, as well as financial pressure. These pressures are so enormous that if not considered before the marriage was consummated, it could bring an end to the once cherished relationship. This is why you need marriage counseling to help point out some marital areas that the couples need to understand properly.

Marriage counseling can help intending couples to resolve some past issues. Many people go into marriage without knowing some character and past of their spouse, only to discover in a letter date in their marriage that they can not cope with their spouse. Marriage counseling can help bring out these facts and proffer solutions on how to deal with such matter.

Marriage counseling is important in building a solid relationship. It has helped in reducing the rate of divorce in some instances. Any intending couples should find it expedient to undergo marriage counseling, to save their marriage from future collapse.
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