HOW TO CURE LACK OF SEX IN MARRIAGE. (1)

When two people are married to each other, in the beginning every thing look perfectly okay the desire for one another can easily be felt. But somewhere down the line, the desire for sex begins to go down. It is either the man or the woman lost total interest in the very thing they so much cherished when they newly got married. They now begin to view sex as part of their problem.

Why would such a thing happen, when the couples were supposed to maintain their intimacy through sexual relationship? Lack of sex in marriage can be attributed to, but not limited to the following reasons.

1. Stress from day to day office activity is said to be one of the main factors couple don’t find sex interesting in the later part of their marriage. Couples who always have busy schedule at work tend to get tired after work. The stress of the day will wear them out to the extent that they could hardly do any other thing after work and this include sex with their spouse.

2. When couples start having children, the women tend to give more attention to the children than their husband. In as much as this is alright on its own, having children should not be allowed to interfere with your relationship. Here you will see a woman telling her husband that the children will soon be back. Thereby denying the husband the pleasure of having sex with his wife.

3. Natural lost of interest in sex: Some people suddenly lost interest in sex. No sexual overture will tune them up for sex; they simply become indifferent to any sexual move by their spouse. This has been attributed to loss of libido or sex hormone. This will make anybody not to have any sexual feeling or some kind of hatred for that word sex.

4. Infidelity can cause a couple to lose interest in having sex with the spouse. When one of the couple is having an affair outside their marriage, it could cause that couple to lose passion with the spouse. This could be as a result of sexual satisfaction the couple is getting from the new sex partner out side the marriage.

5. Sickness or outright impotent, can be the cause of many sexless marriages. When a man has lost his sexual potency, it will be extremely difficult to have sex with your spouse. This impotency may develop years later into the marriage, and this also can cause a sexless marriage. Sickness can also cause the partners to have a sexless married life. When one of the couple is down with sickness, the last thing that will come to his or her mind is sex. The utmost thing in his or her mind will be to recover from the illness.

All the stated problems that can cause sexless marriage are not something impossible to overcome. What we need to do is to apply certain principles which have been proven overtime to work.

In my next article, i will proffer solutions to the above stated causes.

 

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