Sometimes, the incessant marriage break up keeps one wandering if the marriage vows taken by couples are only a mirage, it seems that it only exist in their imaginations, that is why most people find it difficult to live up to their vows. They have just made vows they do not understand. It looks like some people go into marriage for the wrong reason, only to want to back out when their expectations are not met.
Is it really possible to keep marriage vows? What do we have to consider before we make marriage vows? What shall we do to maintain our marriage vows?
Before we decide to make marriage commitment we must consider whether our partner is actually what we want for our self, can our spouse be committed to the marriage?
Couples should not go into marriage for material reason, or based on emotion.
Marriage vows can be kept by the couples, for marriage vows to be faithfully adhere to, these rules should be applied:
- Couples should continually affirm their wedding vows; they should continue to appreciate each other every day of their lives. There is nothing wrong in telling your spouse how grateful you are to him or her for being part of your life. This simple approach is powerful and it can help increase the bound between the couples.
- Couples should love each other with fierceness and determination, by fierceness i mean passion, there must be passion to make the marriage a success, this kind of passion supercedes any other thing.
- There must be absolute faithfulness to each other, this faithfulness mean dependability, dedication, loyalty, truthfulness to each other. Faithfulness to your marriage vow is key to making your marriage a success.
- I always encourage couples to `repeat their marriage vow during their adversary, it keeps the fire burning, it also give the couples real sense of commitment. Repeating your vows to each other will keep reminding you of the first vow you made to each other.
- Always take stock of your selves to see whether you are faithfully keeping the vows, if you are, then be happy about it, if not it is important you retrace your step, and begin to amend things on time.
- I always encourage couples to learn to say ‘i am sorry’ this phrase may look simple, but it can heal any wound faster than you can imagine. Saying it can cement your marriage, by not saying it, you are beginning to create room for the devil to come into your marriage.
- Look for a favorite picture of you and your spouse, frame it and put it on your office desk, it can create close bond between the two of you.
Couples should always put their marriage first, nothing should be allowed to come in-between the marriage. Let brother, sister relationship exist between the couples, and things will go well with them.
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