Reaching a point of orgasm in sex is a major and probably the only sexual problem women face in their marriage life. It is estimated that a large percentage of women do find it difficult to reach orgasm in sex. Sometimes women say they are not sure if they have ever reached orgasm during sex. For some reasons, a small number of women fake orgasm to their husband, maybe not to arouse a feeling of sexual inadequacy in the part of the husband.
One of the reasons why a woman will not reach a point of orgasm is when there is inadequate foreplay before sex. Physical foreplay should always precede sex. When the foreplay is done intensively for 20 minutes before sex, women always reach a point of orgasm during sex. Another reason why a woman may not reach orgasm during sex could be attributed to repressed fear and anxiety, some women have gone through some harrowing experience during their growing years, may be they were raped by somebody they trust so dearly and this single experience made them lost whatever feeling they may have regarding sex. Another reason why a wife may not reach a point of orgasm during sex is when a wife is feeling low esteemed; a wife may see herself as unworthy of love by her husband and therefore find it hard to be aroused for sex by her husband.
Most sexual problems that wife’s undergo can be overcome by their husband giving more care and consideration to foreplay before sex. If the problem is rooted in her self esteem, the husband can help bring out the best in his wife by making her feel wanted all the time. If the problem is caused by an unpleasant experience of rape, then counseling should be sorted out for her, to make her put the experience behind her and look to the future with hope.
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